But thanks be to God that, though you used to be slaves to sin, you have come to obey from your heart the pattern of teaching that has now claimed your allegiance. (Romans 6:17 NIV)
It is hard to follow a pattern of teaching that you don’t know.
Reading Scripture is the certain way to hear from God. It informs our conversation, it gives us language for prayer.
Open and soak in the Bible.
If you don’t love reading it now, discipline yourself and He will meet you and you can grow in your love of Scripture.