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Thinking about love and hate the day after Charlottesville’s tragic events.

Have you ever been on the blunt end of being hated? Being hated is an incredibly damaging and impactful thing. In our world today, I’m sure many of us have felt it at some point, to some degree or another.

It makes you turn inward or, perhaps, away from the hater and even from others. 

Perhaps, the hated person turns to others who have felt the same hate, thus creating a group who has felt hated. Then, in a cauldron of emotions, they foster more hate, largely it would seem, to make themselves feel accepted by other haters. 

Then after a while, hating turns into something deeper. It becomes an aspect of one’s identity. 

The ‘hated,’ turned ‘hater’ embraces symbols of their brand of hatred. In today’s culture this is not just a lapel pin, an emblem on a necklace or a bracelet, it is often ink in the canvas of one’s skin or a flag carried down a street or planted in one’s lawn to provoke others. Thus deepening the identity connection in a more practical and significant manner. Identity is an extremely important aspect to who we are, who we associate with and who we love, or hate.

The tragic events here in Charlottesville yesterday are a sad symbol of hated haters gathering together to face off against others hated haters. In the name of free speech, or of justice, or these or those rights, or, well… the blank may be filled in. Where is the dialogue? Where is the conversation? It’s certainly not in the media. They have ALL CHOSEN SIDES.

I have felt hate. I have found myself hated while abroad because I am an American, deep, angry hate. I have felt hate because I was not X but was in a place only for those who were X. I have even been called a hater (and will likely be called such again) on this very blog and elsewhere because I refused to tow a certain party line. I know the emotions that one feels when the target of such. Emotions demand decisions. One decides to love just as one decides to hate. It is possible to decide to respond in love.

A wise pastor once told the story of being a hater against those who oppressed him and others. He was an oppressed person himself as a member of a weak ethnic group who was moved around by a much stronger government. Uprooted by the oppressor, he had to make a new life elsewhere, because he was part of the hated other. 

Then he realized that Jesus told him to *love his enemy.*

So he does. He decided to obey and to love instead of hate. He was hated for that too.

There was a shortage of love in the several block peremeter around the statue yesterday when we were in downtown Charlottesville and saw this parade of hate.


Today there’s a shortage of love among the political commentators who are responding the to shortage of love coming from the White House. There are a lot of people deciding to hate today. 

Jesus commanded love. As He died, He said “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”

That was love.

May our hearts learn to forgive and love rather than perpetuate more hate, hating and haters.

Love, it’s a decision that can overcome hate. Consider Jesus:

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.” ‭‭(Matthew‬ ‭5:43-45‬ ‭ESV‬‬)

Yes, we must stand against evil. No, I’m not naive enough to think these haters minds will be changed. They are deeply stained with hate, especially in the formation they arrived in. They marched wearing helmets, bearing shields and carrying sticks just the right size for close quarter conflict. Their hate wanted a fight, and they got one. Pepper spray could be smelled where we stood just one block away. We could see the altercations begin. Their hate was hungry and it was fed. Was the response to such hate the wise and prudent answer?

When we feel the need to respond, we should do so, but without matching evil with evil, hate with hate.

Rather, meet hate with love.

Pray for your enemy, for those who hate, that they may meet Love, in the person of Jesus who came to bring peace. This is what scores of people did in several churches yesterday. Indeed, perhaps their love, shown in prayer was more important than we will ever know. Because the parade of hate we watched walk into the hotspot was early. The demonstration was declared unlawful and the protests began to disburse. Had this chain of events not happened and the cauldron of hate boiled hotter, even more lives may have been lost and more injuries happened. 

Indeed, we may surmise that the prayers in those churches and among the rest of us, in homes, cars or on the streets nearby were answered with a quicker dispersal than may have been.

The loss of three lives and the serious injuries of many others notwithstanding, for their families we all should pray, those who can, should reach out. But one thing I’d bet is that those three souls would now want love and reconciliation to be the result of their tragic and senseless deaths. 

May a reminder to love be a legacy from yesterday.

As He died, He said “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”

Decide to love.

We can begin loving, very practically by refusing to hate and admonish on social media.

Share love instead. Hopefully it will be more infectious than hate.

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Dependent Jesus?

Jesus, the Son of God, the Second Person of the Trinity, worked in humility. His will, as He explicitly stated was to do His Father’s will. Consider this quote from John 5.

“”I can do nothing on my own. As I hear, I judge, and my judgment is just, because I seek not my own will but the will of him who sent me.”‭‭John‬ ‭5:30‬ ‭

Within the whole chapter this is a theme from which we may take an important reminder. If Jesus remained connected to His Father so as to do the Father’s will, how can we possibly presume to work apart from Him.

Yet we do.

Rather, let us run to sit with Him so that He may guide our thought, word and deed. So that, my words and deeds are acceptable to God, in His will.

This is how Paul can say

“Paul, an apostle—not from men nor through man, but through Jesus Christ and God the Father, who raised him from the dead—”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭1:1‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Let us be dependent on the Father.

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Emerging from this cave…

I realized yesterday that I had begun to drift. It’s like I was in a cave.

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This morning it was harder than usual to hit the pavement and swim the laps. But I headed out, 


I walked farther than usual and swam harder afterward. I knew that the link between body, mind and spirit is essential to moving forward in my personal discipleship. As I walked, harder than usual, I focused on prayer of praise. I focused on giving God glory as I pushed forward. Then I jumped on the M’Cheyene train and there God was asking rhetorical questions of Job and the human counselors who surrounded him. God was essentially asking which of them was God. I praised Him for the reminder that He is God, sovereign and just, mercy and kind, and holy. 

I knew had allows  urgent challenges to put my focus on earth…


But as I focused on Him, he lifted my gaze…


I felt the wind filling the sails and thanked God, for He has lifted my focus to Himself, rather than the earth. How great, I was reminded, is our God!

Then I read today’s Psalm, 63.

“O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water. So I have looked upon you in the sanctuary, beholding your power and glory. Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you. So I will bless you as long as I live; in your name I will lift up my hands. My soul will be satisfied as with fat and rich food, and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips, when I remember you upon my bed, and meditate on you in the watches of the night; for you have been my help, and in the shadow of your wings I will sing for joy. My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me.”‭‭Psalms‬ ‭63:1-8‬ ‭ESV‬‬

http://bible.com/59/psa.63.1-8.esv

Run to Him. Stay close to Him daily, so that when you do realize you’ve drifted, it won’t be so far to row.

“Aim at Heaven!”

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Whose wisdom? Man’s or God’s? Are we overrating our reason and wisdom? 

You may remember a couple of posts in June from Job. As I move through the book (riding the M’Cheyne train 🚂) and read the human ‘wisdom’ that his counselors give, I’ve been reminded of how apt we are to weigh in with too much of ourselves.

We think more highly of ourselves than we should – Paul knew our propensity – see Romans 12.3. And we often think more highly yet of our opinions. 

This is how I’ve seen the counsel of Job’s ‘counselors.’ 

Then, finally, God (who set the planets in their orbits around stars that make sunsets possible) interjects.


“Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind and said: “Who is this that darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Dress for action like a man; I will question you, and you make it known to me. “Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me, if you have understanding.” (Job‬ ‭38:1-4‬ ‭ESV‬‬)

The rest of the chapter is worth meditating on. It is one of those amazing instances where God declares his power in the greatness of his nature.

It brought me such peace to read these words. To realize the power of God is the same power of God upon which we all rely. As we are reminded of the limitless power of God, let us grow in our trust in Him.

Thanks be to God for God. To God be all the glory.

Click here to read God’s powerful reply.

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A horse

So, full transparency here, a post went from my phone inadvertently. So, the oddest, fastest thing I can post is this horse. Enjoy.

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Giving God All the Glory While Dwelling in His Presense

How blessed to be able to sit in the presence of God, beholding His glory which warms us like bright sun on a cool day. All glory to God.


“Let me dwell in your tent forever! Let me take refuge under the shelter of your wings! 

Selah”

‭‭Psalms‬ ‭61:4‬ ‭ESV‬‬

http://bible.com/59/psa.61.4.esv

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a long way off…

Familiar stories have a way of sneaking up on us. Sometimes we see – or are shown – things in a new way that speaks to us in the way we need. This morning


that happened to me in a very familiar text. 

In the story of the Prodigal Son we see an incredible picture of God’s grace and mercy. When, by all rights and custom, the returning son should have been given status as servant, he received a loving father’s welcome. 

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭15:20‬ ‭ESV‬‬ http://bible.com/59/luk.15.20.esv

God is like that, He runs to us! The Son of God stood from His rightful place at the throne of grace, stepped down into that which He had brought into being, put on the flesh of humanity and became like us. For us.

Thankfully, God didn’t just look at our pitiful state and say, ‘Well, that’s just the way they are.’ He entered our sphere and changed reality for us, that we may enter His reality, the reality, being present with Him, to His glory, because He did all the work to reconcile us to Himself and hanging on the cross with His arms open wide, proclaimed “It is finished.”

So, if you’re a long way off, you may come to Him and find welcome.

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